tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post6593718176742243462..comments2024-03-29T09:11:27.447-06:00Comments on She Who Seeks: Gay and GreyDebra She Who Seekshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-8642840290687983952022-06-30T18:03:10.042-06:002022-06-30T18:03:10.042-06:00If you don't approve of it, don't do it. B...If you don't approve of it, don't do it. But leave the rest of us out of your morality, please. <br />That seems to be going down the tube these days.The Blog Fodderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11441978691701289074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-65498284979901618012022-06-12T19:38:12.835-06:002022-06-12T19:38:12.835-06:00a generation of old gay people; first ones. Curiou...a generation of old gay people; first ones. Curious to see how this goes. Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-75905439273048205932022-06-06T12:55:29.911-06:002022-06-06T12:55:29.911-06:00Love this last one. Sweet, proud old man. Wish I c...Love this last one. Sweet, proud old man. Wish I could give him a big hug.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-22597441394529489082022-06-06T04:10:56.638-06:002022-06-06T04:10:56.638-06:00Love and support for all the elders and trailblzer...Love and support for all the elders and trailblzers!Laura Morriganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402692693911867276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-15781176591440821832022-06-05T14:36:36.287-06:002022-06-05T14:36:36.287-06:00Such a great post! You are in the age group of tra...Such a great post! You are in the age group of trailblazers! Loved the one about refusing a gay proposal marriage. Makes me laugh every time. My husband says something similar when people mention being opposed to gay marriage. Let people live their lives and mind your own flippin' business!Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470947568183528236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-38959143426618466272022-06-04T17:17:36.418-06:002022-06-04T17:17:36.418-06:00I'm one- handed typing this as I ice my left w...I'm one- handed typing this as I ice my left wrist. Earlier this week it was my right ankle... lol. Getting old is no joke. But, being old and gay is wonderful. I live in a liberal bubble where I feel safe to be my true self. I know that is not the case for so many of my LGBTQ family, and I wish they could live as freely as I do. Mind you, I'm extra careful when I find myself in 'red' country. I keep telling myself that it's getting better. <br />Great memes, as always!<br />(e)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-54996876846856536072022-06-04T14:56:31.928-06:002022-06-04T14:56:31.928-06:00We have made some progress over the years.We have made some progress over the years.Guillaumehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12376749604845793465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-86272885434485644102022-06-04T14:35:53.330-06:002022-06-04T14:35:53.330-06:00Living in San Francisco in the very early 90s had ...Living in San Francisco in the very early 90s had difficult times - we all knew people who had died from aids. And at that point the disease moved quickly. I lived in Noe Valley - the other side of the Castro Hill. It is a beautiful part of the city and a place I miss. I will say I am very glad my girls are free to be their true selves, although with all the backwardness of the Supreme Court who knows what comes after Roe v Wade AntiquityTravelershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448273777508831649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-50979453192393302882022-06-04T07:47:24.157-06:002022-06-04T07:47:24.157-06:00That choir photo is so tragic. I was about to copy...That choir photo is so tragic. I was about to copy it and use it when I wondered if it would be viewed negatively, as if I'm suggesting something about it being a gay disease. I don't know if people still think like that. Perhaps I'll just use my rainbow-cardi photo from your contest last year to say Pride.Liz Hindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04646532093872561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-3439369222154777952022-06-04T05:53:02.268-06:002022-06-04T05:53:02.268-06:00@ Richard -- I'm glad you're a member of o...@ Richard -- I'm glad you're a member of our community! That's nice to learn!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-31490094492872173022022-06-04T01:17:47.526-06:002022-06-04T01:17:47.526-06:00I must say more. I am an old gay man and i have so...I must say more. I am an old gay man and i have something to say. We were heroes. It took me almost 20 years to "come out"<br />to this friend. I was afraid he wouldn't love me anymore.<br /> I was afraid he wouldn't understand. <br />Finally he said it. Are you gay? I said yes. He said that's ok.<br /> After all that we had seen and done, gay or straight was the least of our worries. Richardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16217677217054777278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-53484267629693267592022-06-04T00:09:03.964-06:002022-06-04T00:09:03.964-06:00I don't need to be the center of a community. ...I don't need to be the center of a community. Just the freedom to be queer is enough.<br /><br />That said, I do feel more strongly about the political side to it than ever before, and it does anger me that there are those trying to turn back a clock that was running kind of slow to begin with.Kirkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02155991693956178030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-47629243662207719402022-06-03T21:03:01.862-06:002022-06-03T21:03:01.862-06:00San Francisco Gay Men Choir. That broke my heart....San Francisco Gay Men Choir. That broke my heart. I hid in Utah and fell in love with a straight boy. We were heroes and our thing was exploring the country. He was straight,but that didn't stop us. We were exploring the country. <br /><br />One time, a friend told me it is good you are living here. Because AIDS would get you. I still don't know what to think about that. I guess i am a survivor. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Richardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16217677217054777278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-74835391641326942902022-06-03T20:53:45.224-06:002022-06-03T20:53:45.224-06:00Yes, lewd. I seem to recall somebody posting a pic...Yes, lewd. I seem to recall somebody posting a picture of her leg covered in nothing but SEE-THROUGH cling wrap. The subsequent propositions and marriage proposals would have made a sailor blush.Old Lurkerhttps://oldlurker974.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-56593429928206229272022-06-03T18:26:37.178-06:002022-06-03T18:26:37.178-06:00@ Tundra Bunny -- Ben-Gay, GROAN, good one!@ Tundra Bunny -- Ben-Gay, GROAN, good one!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-46924383288825996852022-06-03T17:55:35.027-06:002022-06-03T17:55:35.027-06:00Hope you've stocked up on Ben-Gay for your gol...Hope you've stocked up on Ben-Gay for your golden years, Deb!Tundra Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18134746132868641271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-1602115226319518542022-06-03T17:43:27.228-06:002022-06-03T17:43:27.228-06:00I guess it's never too late..Good for them..Go...I guess it's never too late..Good for them..Good post Deb!!! Enjoy your weekendThis N Thathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14660035693962636210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-48635023141461337212022-06-03T16:23:19.916-06:002022-06-03T16:23:19.916-06:00"queer oldies but goodies" needs to be o..."queer oldies but goodies" needs to be on a t-shirt. Also, I love that pin!Magaly Guerrerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18295455026184103230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-39245974671984668762022-06-03T15:59:06.876-06:002022-06-03T15:59:06.876-06:00The San Fransisco choir is heartbreaking. I love t...The San Fransisco choir is heartbreaking. I love the 90 year old!Pollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10502031456581056874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-68014751728598039392022-06-03T14:37:25.270-06:002022-06-03T14:37:25.270-06:00That choir photo is so sad, Debra. I remember the...That choir photo is so sad, Debra. I remember the "gay cancer" that had my gay friends scared when I lived in Garden Grove, CA in the late 70s. At least things are more hopeful on that front. The "Two Granpas" book should be in every classroom, because a lot of our classrooms have kids with gay family members or kids who are gay themselves. What happened in Florida recently has me furious and sickened. I won't go to Florida unless I have to pass through it because of a flight. I admit that briefly I was a little uncertain about gay marriage, and then I thought what the hell is wrong with you, Louise? People who love each other and want to get married should be able to, regardless. You know that I adore Ron and Jim. I can't wait to see them this summer! They've been together almost 50 years, and they have a more committed and loving relationship than most heterosexual couples. You have taught me so much over the years, and I'm grateful for that, my friend! Hugs to you! Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-62752837098951298262022-06-03T13:06:27.970-06:002022-06-03T13:06:27.970-06:00@ Old Lurker -- I had a good chuckle at the idea t...@ Old Lurker -- I had a good chuckle at the idea that my innocent little blog might be considered "lewd." Ooooo, talk dirty to me some more, Lurkie!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-35968660021906715262022-06-03T12:35:01.071-06:002022-06-03T12:35:01.071-06:00great advice on gay marriage. I'm only against...great advice on gay marriage. I'm only against BAD marriages but you don't know until you are in one. My first one didn't work out well.Bill Lislemanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15187273560129198423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-40041517957325748172022-06-03T11:55:38.336-06:002022-06-03T11:55:38.336-06:00It's so good times are changingIt's so good times are changing Adamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08051255914419363819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-67520402075724581502022-06-03T11:16:06.457-06:002022-06-03T11:16:06.457-06:00The veteran pin would push a few people over the e...The veteran pin would push a few people over the edge!Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017192454403363349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4666990364305390259.post-9824766350003997002022-06-03T10:57:51.415-06:002022-06-03T10:57:51.415-06:00“If you’re opposed to gay marriage...” That’s exce...“If you’re opposed to gay marriage...” That’s excellent.<br /><br />I’m here. I’m queer. Again, I’m HERE, not invisible.Moving with Mitchellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12954028272162285597noreply@blogger.com