Recently, thanks to blogging buddy Mitchell of Moving with Mitchell, I learned a new-to-me Gen Z slang term -- "mad drip" which means "excellent [fashion] style" apparently. Mitchell posted an old photo of himself and his sister Dale wearing the latest 1959 fashions (see it here). In my comment, I said --
Yes, you and Dale had mad drip indeed! I see Dale was wearing white bobby socks and black patent leather Mary Janes that were de rigueur at the time. When my Mom dressed pre-schooler me for Sunday School, I wore those too with a similarly puffy-skirted dress — but mine was pink, I’ll have you know, as befitted girls. Hahahahaha! I should do a post with a couple of incriminating photos of me in girly-girl drag.
So here's those incriminating photos now.
The date stamp on the photo's border says "FEB 60" but clearly that is NOT February-in-Canada weather, lol. The date stamp references when the photo was developed, not when it was taken, which must have been in the summer of 1959. So I was two years old.
I suspect this photo was taken a year or two later when I was three or four. Different dress but the shoes look the same. Given how fast kids grow, though, they must have been different ones. Probably the last time I wore a crinoline too. I remember putting up a huge fight against those damn scratchy things and refusing to ever wear one again.
Left to my own devices, this next photo shows what I preferred to wear. The cowboy hat was my brother's and usually I also wore his gun holster set of toy six-shooters, but my mother must have prevailed to leave those out of the snap that day.
Now, what's all this about hockey sticks?
See the white picket fence in the first photo and the white trellis in the second? They were both made from the shafts of broken hockey sticks. At that time, my father worked for Municipal Services in the town in which we lived. One of his duties was to work at the municipal ice rink in the winter. A lot of hockey sticks got (and still get) broken by players during games. In those days, sticks were real wood, not fibreglass or carbon fibre like today. My father got permission to take the now-discarded broken sticks home. He trimmed them into various lengths, sanded them, painted them white, and made them into our picket fences and trellises. He was imaginative and talented with carpentry skills that way.
39 comments:
...when it comes to Gen Z slang terms I'm illiterate, "mad drip" is new to me. I just learned "lock in!"
Oooh, you are a really sweet little girl, and a dressing is very nice, as well as cowboy clothes 🤩😊👍
Your dad was well ahead of his time using the sticks as he did. Great job too. Love those photos, Debra.
Nice to see your mad drip evolve to a place that felt more you.
Dad was one of the original upcyclers, turning hockey sticks to fences.
It didn't take long for you to find your comfort zone in what to wear. It sounds like I am a year or so younger than you - we are both still young.
i wouldn't mess with THAT sheriff!! great pics.... and i love the hockey stick story..... i bet they were as strong as any other timber you'd find..... probably made a good good fence
Love the history behind the rails. Man, how society has changed! Super cute pictures and what lovely memories!
My folks didn’t call it upcycling then. They called it not being a wasteful glutton. And they were the masters of “making do.” They were depression era kids so they learned in a hard school. As for the dresses, we grew up in the age of standardization, where EVERYTHING had to be like everybody else’s. It was a suffocating time for any kid that wasn’t standard issue. Amazing that so many people want to go back to that world like it was some kind of perfect society. Gah!
Ohhh
I love the cowboy hat and the two-toned shoes!!
Mad drip indeed!
Also, the idea of upcycling the hockey sticks?? Fab.
XOXO
I see your mom kept your hair cut short, which I'm sure was much easier to keep on top of. Or did she sense that's how you preferred it?
When I hear "Mad drip", I only think of Edith and Mary Crawley talking about the latest fashions of the 1920's.
Well, dang, if you don't look fabulous in the cowboy stuff!
Love the hockey stick history. Your dad was indeed creative.
@ RockyD -- You're right on both counts! My Dad was a product of the Great Depression too. And yes, I can't believe people want to go back to the suffocating era of standardization either. It was so oppressive!
@ Kathy G -- Those short little "Pixie cuts" were all the rage for girls then. But yes, it would have been much easier to look after than long hair on a little girl!
@ Rade -- Yup, that was me -- always living the Downton Abbey lifestyle, LOL!
🏒 I love the hockey sticks as fencing and trellis. They just look perfect. 👌
My mad drip childhood was also a little too heavy on stiff skirts, little lacey white gloves, bonnets (!), and white (!) patent leather Mary Janes!! 😱🤢 I never forgave my mother for setting up her tomboy daughter for failure!! I was always in trouble because dirt and scuffs were my constant companions and didn't I realize "how expensive these clothes are?!" Well no, I didn't know and didn't care and "if Mom likes them so much, let her wear them!!" (I never actually said that aloud.) 🫣
The one outfit I loved was a blue and white "sailor" dress which was fun and I got to wear red Keds with it so the dirt wasn't so obvious. The one drawback was that my Mom was in the same outfit. 🤮 Did Canadian girls in 1960 have to put up with "mother/daughter"* dresses? Oy vay! I never caught a break! 🤣
*I know mother/daughter dresses are still available, but back then they were practically mandatory! 🤬
You DO have mad drip! How old were you when you prevailed and didn’t have to wear the frills anymore. The last photo is the best of them all. You look so content and full of yourself! And, of course, saddle shoes. My sister had those, too. Your stories about your father make me wish I knew him. I love the hockeysticket fence.
I never liked dresses. I could tell you the dress was pretty, but they always made me double self-conscious. My mother put me in those white bobby socks with the lace on them. Ugh. The lace was itchy, and I always pulled them up like knee socks and she'd always fold them back down.
Meanwhile, I distressed my mother with sound effects and sailor talk (and I don't mean nautical terms).
I'm 61 now, and she's 82 with dementia. But she's still trying to make me a lady.
My father, on the other hand, takes me as I am. Sometimes we go girl watching together. We have similar tastes in women. Freud would have a few things to say about that, I'm sure.
@ Cleora Borealis -- Oh no, not the dreaded matching outfits! Luckily, I was never subjected to that. But I still have a horror of dressing "matchy-matchy" with a partner. I call it the Bobbsey Twin look (another 1960s reference!). Unfortunately, too many couples end up dressing alike.
@ Moving with Mitchel -- Luckily, by the time I went to school, my Mom had thrown in the towel on the frilly, girly-girl look. I guess I just plain wore her down, LOL.
@ BSB -- "Sound effects"-- you mean fart noises, LOL? To go with the sailor talk? And I love the idea of you and your Dad girl-watching together!
You came into your own pretty young. Escaped from frilly dresses into comfortable clothes a person could round up cattle in!
Look at your adorable self! The dresses are indeed girly drag. I remember how scratchy that awful stuff was. I love the picture of you dressed as yourself - such insouciance! Thank goodness your mom gave up. Mine did too. We all wore jeans all the time. Still do.
Your dad was a post-Depression genius. Those hockey sticks had a fantastic second life.
And I just found out that we are the same age. I remember having to spend every Saturday night polishing those Mary Janes to a spit shine.
Love the Hockey Sticks story. Glad to know about mad drip. I'm so outta touch with current lingo, fashion, well just about everything.
This post is so heartwarmingly Canadian. Insert fist bump here.
Love that relaxed leaning against the post photo.
Things had eased up quite a bit by the time I was a little girl in the 1960's, except for the awful Pixie cut. Oh, how I hated it! My hair was naturally curly, so I'm sure it was less trouble to care for, but I wanted long, straight hair like all the other girls!
I love the tale of the repurposed/recycled hockey sticks. In that sense, your father was ahead of his time. Over here in Great Britain, the term "hockey" is usually reserved for field hockey. Ice hockey is a minority sport but we have a significant team in Sheffield - The Sheffield Steelers.
Great photos, great memories, I'm sure. I love to scavenger and recycle stuff too.
@ Lisa -- '57 babies are THE BEST!
@ Yorkshire Pudding -- And here in Canada, "hockey" means one thing and one thing only -- ice hockey! You mean to tell me there are OTHER kinds? I refuse to believe it.
Hi Debra, Of course your blog worked that day after I complained to you! Or maybe you changed something from your end?
At any rate, if your dad had saved those hockey sticks and labeled them with the player who broke them and which game, they (and you) would be worth a fortune today on the sports memorabilia market!
--Jim
@ Parnassus -- Glad you can see my blog again! And nope, I did nothing, so the problem must just have been a temporary glitch of some kind, hopefully! And as for those hockey sticks -- alas, YET ANOTHER fortune slipped through my fingers, lol.
Love the old photos! I enjoyed the story about the hockey sticks! Your clever dad!
I love looking back on old pictures.
Your photos radiate charm, but it’s your dad’s clever handiwork with those broken hockey sticks that truly steals the show
I definitely am out of the loop when it comes to new slang
The white socks and black shoes were a big fashion hit here as well.
Your dad was very clever and frugal indeed
Your father was brilliant to use the hockey sticks in that manner! You (are) were so adorable, in both the dresses and the Cowboy get up.
Mad Drip? Sounds like something you'd need to see your Doctor about.
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