Friday, 21 August 2026

Freebie Friday & A Reminiscence

Blogging buddy Mary Kirkland of Dark Thoughts blog has a regular feature called "Freebie Friday" where she tells us about all the fab free items and free samples she scores in the U.S. of A. It's much, much harder to get freebies in Canada, so I haven't been able to share any comparable posts.

UNTIL NOW!

When I was in Winnipeg, Manitoba in June, it just happened to be Pride Month. One day I was idly strolling in my old neighbourhood and went into a used bookstore to browse around. An LGBTQ+ book display near the front of the store featured a bowl full of handcrafted cross-stitched Rainbow Heart key rings. A small sign said "Free! Take one! Happy Pride!"

So I did take one, and here it is --


It's a quality craft too, done on plastic canvas and double-sided so that both stitchery "backsides" are sandwiched together and hidden inside. It measures 4" long and 2" wide.

And wow, it took me right back to the early days of Winnipeg Pride Marches in the late 80s and early 90s, when Pride celebrations were still small and shunned, before Pride became more accepted and commercialized. In those days, there was no such thing as manufactured Rainbow merch. Everything we had for the celebration was handcrafted -- locally-made t-shirts by bars and queer organizations, homemade Pride flags and rainbow balloon displays, home-baked Pink Triangle sugar cookies with tinted frosting, Rice Krispie treats turned into rainbow flag goodies with the magic of food colouring. People were very inventive, like the two dykes selling hot dogs out of a mobile cart while wearing t-shirts that said "Lesbians Like Wieners Too!" And needless to say, all the floats in the March were improvised, somewhat wonky creations of artistry and defiance, blaring club music from boom boxes hidden behind the floats' scenery and gyrating bodies.

Oh, Winnipeg, those were the days.


Thursday, 20 August 2026

Living Like Royalty!









To live like royalty, it's crucial to employ
the table manners and eating etiquette
of the upper classes and your betters.

You must invest 13 minutes of your time
to watch this instructional video
entitled "Eat (Like) The Rich" by
the Irish humorist Garron Noone.

However, be forewarned.

He DOES use some lower middle class language in this video.


Wednesday, 19 August 2026

Bunnies Today. Cute WHOLESOME Bunnies.






[art by Ethan M. Aldridge]




[art by Anya Stasenko and Slava Leontiev]




Tuesday, 18 August 2026

Nothing But Dick Jokes Today, Sorry


Oh, of course you'll ALL click "Yes, Continue."

I KNOW MY READERS!











Monday, 17 August 2026

Monday Murals -- Progress Pride Flag

I'm taking part today in 
Monday Murals hosted by Sami.

In June, when I was in Winnipeg, Manitoba,
I saw this wonderful Progress Pride Flag mural
painted on a public square close to the downtown
Exchange District Campus of Red River College Polytech.


This variant of the Rainbow Pride Flag
representing the LGBTQ+ community
has a triangular insert of coloured stripes
representing transgender people and people of colour. 


In addition, this mural contains a circular insert
based on the Indigenous Medicine Wheel
to represent two-spirit people.

"Two-spirit" is a contemporary term encompassing
all indigenous members of the LGBTQ+ community.
The term was first created and adopted by indigenous
conference participants in Winnipeg in 1990
and its use is now widespread.


I hadn't seen a Two-Spirit Medicine Wheel insert before.
It felt so appropriate to have seen it for the first time
in Winnipeg, birthplace of this important term
of inclusion and respect.

[Photos © Debra She Who Seeks, 2026]

Sunday, 16 August 2026

Where's A Wizard When You Need One?










And sheesh, I thought Marvel paid better.